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Something Single Women Hate - Don't Do It – Part 2

by: David_DeAngelo
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Here are a few common problems that lead to "Boring Date-Itis":

1. Playing it "safe". Following her lead, not saying anything that you think will upset her and making sure that you're "proper".

2. Talking about boring things. Like jobs, family, weather, etc., because it's "what people talk about to get to know each other."

3. Being boring.

PLAYING IT SAFE

I can remember when I thought that the proper way to act on a date was to talk about socially acceptable topics, act sterile and quiet, and generally try to make sure that she got whatever she wanted.

Oh, was this a huge mistake.

Generally speaking, women are bored to death by this kind of behavior.

When you meet a girl for a cup of tea or go out to dinner, it's time to have fun, not to be her personal ass kisser!

Playing it safe and kissing up to her is a sure way to get either an expensive relationship or a woman who won't call you back.

TALKING ABOUT BORING THINGS

Don't talk about your job and your family!

Boring!

Guys who are trying to convince women that they're "nice", talk about their families (If you really want to be a loser, carry pictures around with you and show them off).

Talking about families is "courtship" behavior, and it will put her into the old "this guy is boring" frame of mind. Unless you're related to John F. Kennedy or someone even more interesting, keep the family history to yourself!

BEING BORING

So, what does a "boring" guy act like?

Well, for starters he acts like he's not comfortable in the situation...

Nervous smiles. Apologizing. Agreeing with her opinions all the time. Asking her what she'd like to do. Holding your body in an unsure, insecure way.

That's a good start.

Mix in a few uncomfortable silences and you've got the makings for her running as fast as she can and changing her phone number to save herself from another one of your boring calls!

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Double Your Dating - What Every Man Should Know About How To Be Successful With Getting Women. David DeAngelo will show you the secrets that most men will never know about women. Improve your dating with David's dating tips and dating advice.

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